Connect + Play - Personalised gay intimacy play experiences
What if casual play could feel different? No rush. No scripts. Just two men meeting with openness, curiosity, and desire.
Often when we think we want sex, what we really want is intimacy. To be touched. Admired. To laugh with someone. To feel safe. To feel like someone really cares.
Connect + Play sessions with me blend sensual exploration, tenderness, care, and consent. A unique chance for two men to meet body-to-body and discover what intimacy can truly feel like.
Ready to explore intimacy beyond the swipe? Let’s create something memorable - together.
What's a Connect + Play session?
90 minutes to 3 hours of connection
Gentle conversation to set intentions
Play, pleasure, and closeness - as much or as little erotic energy as feels right
Freedom to explore without performance pressure
Always guided by mutual consent and curiosity
What happens in a session is inspired by you and agreed on by both of us. That might look like:
Cuddling with quiet stillness
Being caressed or massaged
Sharing thoughts or feelings
Exploring each others’ bodies
Sexual interaction (but it won't look like porn!)
Many other possibilities…
Nudity, erections, orgasms? Possible.
Shame, scripts, or expectations? Not here.
You bring your curiosity.
I bring my time, attention, and the gift of my body.
Together, we explore what’s possible.
I offer Connect + Play intimacy sessions for gay, bi and curious men at my studio space in Hastings on the south coast of England – an easy connection to both London and Brighton. Please note: I don’t offer Connect + Play as overnight sessions, or in any other location.
Learn more: https://www.mindfulgaysex.coach/gay-intimacy-london-brighton/
GaySexCoach
LondonUK
One of the UK's most unique gay sex and intimacy coaches.
How it works
Location: Hastings, UK
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